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BECAREFUL WHAT YOU CALL DELAY

 Times has shown that this generation has tied an invisible clock to themselves. They've allotted a particular time to themselves on when and how things should go in their life. They've stamped time on when they should get their degree, masters, get married, hit a figure in their account, have the children, build the house, own the car, etc. And when it seems as if  things are not falling in place they begin to panic, feel pressured and dejected. They begin to feel like all hope is lost and feel like life seem not to be fair with them. They resort into comparing themselves with the achievements of others.  Now, this is not to dispute the place is setting goals and striving to achieve them. It is very important to set goals and it's sweet to strike the goals and achieve them. But there is something that seem to be lacking whenever we set goals, which is knowing  God's timing for us.  God created everyone to be unique and apportioned a unique timing to everyone. T...

FAILURE DOES NOT DEFINE YOU

 We live in a world where many people are scrambling for definition. Some people engage in certain things just to obtain a definition for themselves.  Many go to the extent of accepting what others say they are. And you know what, many people can be very demeaning that they will want to tell you falsehood about yourself and also want to force it into you, so you intentionally or unintentionally  pick it up as your reality. People and also  society wants to give you a definition. The society says if you go to school, your certificate defines you,  if you're married, you're defined by your marriage etc. I'm not saying these are bad in themselves, but I'm  trying to say that drawing your identity from these things should not be the right thing to do. Because these things don't define who you are.   Human beings are social creatures. And as social creature, we need feedbacks in order to be sure of what we are doing. Feedback is the output of what was put i...

Weakness for a cover

In every relationship, I think from my little experience and from what I've seen, that God brings together two imperfect persons together to help perfect their weakness through His strength. God does not author confusion in whatever He does. Anything He steps in to do, just be rest assured it will come out fine. When it comes to compatibility,God still remains the perfect match maker. God created man to have same character but different personalities. Reason is that God loves variety. He delights in our uniqueness. The Bible did not talk much on personality but it dwelled more on character. He expects that as His child, you're loyal, faithful, truthful,kind,etc. There is a universal character display expected of every child of God. But when it comes to personality, it comes with difference because it was made to be so by God. Everybody have their own personality differences. There is a difference between character and personality. Character is the picture of the inw...

A LETTER TO SINGLE SISTERS

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The crave to be united with a believing brother has led many into toxic marriage. Not that marrying a believer is wrong NO, afterall the bible clearly stated that we should not be unequally yoked. But there are intricate things every believer should look out for in the life of any man who comes to ask for their hand in marriage. Marriage is a very defining element in the life of every individual and it is a determinant whether you'll make heaven or not. Its also a determinant of your life long peace on Earth. The devil has really sown tars and has made us confused over what we're not supposed to be confused about. He has made sure that many are ignorant of what is important and make them busy with the less important. Christ gave gifts to men before leaving because there was a need to be filled up in the body of Christ.  He gave gifts of pastor, prophets, evangelists some teachers,some apostles. All these were for the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry and fo...

Spiritual Liability

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We live in a generation where there are irresponsible believers who go from Church to Church seeking for who to pray for them. There are plenty of prayer houses in every corner of our environment. People feeling up these prayer houses seeking prohecies, visions, miracles etc. Once they hear that a particular man can see, they will troop in in their big number. This is not disputing the place of prophecy, but there is an alarm ringing in the christaindom for a wake up. This is becoming a big issue in the body of Christ. Mostimes when those prohecies dont come to pass, they tend to pick up a fight with the man of God, forgetting that there is a part they have to play for prophecy to come to pass. The bible made us to understand that He has given us the AUTHORITY that means we can cast out devil ,heal the sick, and raise the dead. But to get to that realm, there are roles you need to play. It takes understanding for one to begin to walk in this realm of the spirit. Until w...

THE INCUBATION SEASON

Incubation time is the period when nuturing and maturation takes place. It's a time of development before the hatching season.   The incubation time or season is a very important season in the life of every individual with the thirst to succeed. It is a time when one is being worked upon. Excesses are removed and tangible values added.This season when jumped always has its consequences. The incubation season can also be seen as the waiting season. Its a period where you are groomed to the personality you desire to become. To emerge the best in whatever you do, you need to get into the waiting room. While in the waiting room, you are expected to build up yourself in accordance to your line of calling. This is not a time to waste around. Your rising should not meet you unaware. Your maintenance on the top is directly proportional to your level of preparation. When adequate preparation is done or achieved, it tells in the outcome of your life. Things don't meet you unaw...

Hope in bleak times.

     In a world of constant chaos and distruption, there seem to be  an absence of light at the end of the tunnel. It looks like there is darkness looming around and you cry and wet your pillow all night, staying awake and thinking of what will be the way out. It seems like nothing is moving anymore and you become hopeless and despondent. But somehow, a quick notice comes your way saying "there is hope". When it seems dark and dreary, always remember there is light at the end of the tunnel. Our Lord Jesus said "come unto me all ye that are heavy laden and i will give you rest". Cast your cares on him for he cares for you. Keeping hope alive in the midst of tumoil is very necessary. Most times its not easy, but you just have to  because it enables you sail afloat the stormy sea. Your hope alive makes you unmovable by the circumstance at hand or what you're seeing. The doctor's report makes no sense to you because your hope curve on the graph of life ...