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Hope in bleak times.

     In a world of constant chaos and distruption, there seem to be  an absence of light at the end of the tunnel. It looks like there is darkness looming around and you cry and wet your pillow all night, staying awake and thinking of what will be the way out. It seems like nothing is moving anymore and you become hopeless and despondent. But somehow, a quick notice comes your way saying "there is hope". When it seems dark and dreary, always remember there is light at the end of the tunnel. Our Lord Jesus said "come unto me all ye that are heavy laden and i will give you rest". Cast your cares on him for he cares for you. Keeping hope alive in the midst of tumoil is very necessary. Most times its not easy, but you just have to  because it enables you sail afloat the stormy sea. Your hope alive makes you unmovable by the circumstance at hand or what you're seeing. The doctor's report makes no sense to you because your hope curve on the graph of life ...

The miracle of self confidence #part2

In the previous post, the word "confidence" was buttressed for everyone to have a better understanding. Getting to know that without self confidence, you cannot get to any feat you desire. We also saw the relevance of self confidence in all that we do. When you lack confidence, it's always obvious and it shows in your disposition to life. We're kickstarting by exploring other things that border around this trait. Lets get to know the signs of lack of confidence: *Self doubt. *Lack of trust in yourself and in others. *Fear. *Unforgiving attitude. *Self shame. *Desperation. *Jealousy. *Inferiority complex.       Various ways self confidence can be expressed: ✓Behavior: Behavior speaks very much about how one feel inside. ✓Body language:This says alot about an individual. Therefore one needs to be careful how he or she sends messages with his or her body composure. ✓In Dressing:This speaks volume about who a person is on the inside. ✓Walk. ✓In relations...

The miracle of self confidence #part1

In my experience in life, I've come to realize that the absence of self-confidence can rob you of very important opportunies. Therefore, my quest to have a balanced understanding of what self-confidence is all about began. Philippians 4:19 says, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." This scripture served as an eye-opener to me and made me brace up to opportunities with boldness, because I've been made to know by my heavenly Father that I can accomplish anything through His strength. This is why I defined confidence as the ability or the strong knowing within that you are capable of doing or carrying out a task. The absence of this trait "confidence" is timidity. And the Bible said He has not given us the spirit of timidity but of love, power and sound mind. Most tasks we see come looking difficult on the surface but when confronted, seem to be less difficult than we thought it was. This is why confidence is very essential for any...

THE MISSING VIRTUE

Humility is the state of mind. When it takes place in you, it transcends from the inward to your outward disposition in life. According to the dictionary, it can be defined as the quality or condition of being humble, modest in opinion, or estimate of one’s own importance, rank, status etc. The origin of humility: it originated from the Latin word humilitas. The synonyms are lowliness, meekness, submissiveness. The antonym: PRIDE. Today in our society, humility has turned around to be a virtue that seem to have been outdated. People no longer visualize it as a virtue which must be inculcated into our life style. It's now seen as a thing observed by the low class. If you're seen exhibiting humility, you'll be term old fashioned or not classy. Biblically, it was stated in the book of Matthew 5 during the sermon on the mount, where Jesus Christ was admonishing his disciples He thus said “Blessed are the meek: For they shall inherit the earth." This invariabl...

WHAT DOES YOUR MIND FEED ON.

The mind has a  capacity large enough to accommodate anything thrown into it. The state of your mind is determined by what you feed it with. If you feed it with garbage it will give back garbage, but when the mind is fed with the right contents, it exudes positive vibes.    For the mind to be robust,one needs to feed it with the right things. The mind is not supposed to be blank or idle. If one does not intentionally feed the mind with viable things, automatically the negative things will have no option than to fill in the mind. The mind works in accordance to what is being poured into it. This is what inspires a person to act the way they do. When the mind is right, everything about you will be right. Because out of the abundance or content of your mind actions are displayed. Therefore,if you intend to act right, first have the right mind and every other things will fall in place.     To make the mind robust, first know the state of your mind. Because...