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BECAREFUL WHAT YOU CALL DELAY

 Times has shown that this generation has tied an invisible clock to themselves. They've allotted a particular time to themselves on when and how things should go in their life. They've stamped time on when they should get their degree, masters, get married, hit a figure in their account, have the children, build the house, own the car, etc. And when it seems as if  things are not falling in place they begin to panic, feel pressured and dejected. They begin to feel like all hope is lost and feel like life seem not to be fair with them. They resort into comparing themselves with the achievements of others.  Now, this is not to dispute the place is setting goals and striving to achieve them. It is very important to set goals and it's sweet to strike the goals and achieve them. But there is something that seem to be lacking whenever we set goals, which is knowing  God's timing for us.  God created everyone to be unique and apportioned a unique timing to everyone. T...

FAILURE DOES NOT DEFINE YOU

 We live in a world where many people are scrambling for definition. Some people engage in certain things just to obtain a definition for themselves.  Many go to the extent of accepting what others say they are. And you know what, many people can be very demeaning that they will want to tell you falsehood about yourself and also want to force it into you, so you intentionally or unintentionally  pick it up as your reality. People and also  society wants to give you a definition. The society says if you go to school, your certificate defines you,  if you're married, you're defined by your marriage etc. I'm not saying these are bad in themselves, but I'm  trying to say that drawing your identity from these things should not be the right thing to do. Because these things don't define who you are.   Human beings are social creatures. And as social creature, we need feedbacks in order to be sure of what we are doing. Feedback is the output of what was put i...