The miracle of self confidence #part2
In the previous post, the word "confidence" was buttressed for everyone to have a better understanding. Getting to know that without self confidence, you cannot get to any feat you desire. We also saw the relevance of self confidence in all that we do. When you lack confidence, it's always obvious and it shows in your disposition to life.
We're kickstarting by exploring other things that border around this trait.
Lets get to know the signs of lack of confidence:
*Self doubt.
*Lack of trust in yourself and in others.
*Fear.
*Unforgiving attitude.
*Self shame.
*Desperation.
*Jealousy.
*Inferiority complex.
Various ways self confidence can be expressed:
✓Behavior: Behavior speaks very much about how one feel inside.
✓Body language:This says alot about an individual. Therefore one needs to be careful how he or she sends messages with his or her body composure.
✓In Dressing:This speaks volume about who a person is on the inside.
✓Walk.
✓In relationship with others.
You can build yourself by the following:
♣ Believe yourself: Believe in your ability to do or manage things.
Always remember that you are endowed with great potentials. This can be realized by doing a SWOT analysis of who you are. This is knowing your strength, your weakness, the available opportunies for you, the time frame for you. Knowing this will help you have a realistic view of who you are.
♣Look at the achievements you've made in time past, and tell yourself that if you can do such you can achieve more. Quit brooding over your past failures.
♣Always try to feel good about yourself. No one can do this for you except you.
♣Fix challenging goals. The greater the goals the greater your self confidence. Which brings you to the position of thinking.
But its very necessary to know that there is a thin line between being confident and being arrogant.
Being confident carries an aura of peace within and without. Which allows the individual permit others shine. But being arrogant,carries an ambience of rancor. Always wanting to be seen in the spotlight. Always wanting everything to revolve around them. They have a flair for accolade which when not given to them they begin to go wild.
Being confident will help you set healthy boundaries and still maintain a healthy relationship with others.
Do not forget the Holy Spirit still remains the person who helps us in our weaknesses and help us build our confident level. He is a partner that can be reliable in times like this.
There are biblical characters who displayed confidence with the help of God. They are:
Daniel in the lion's den and his interpretation of the kings dream.
Shedrack, Mishack, and Abednego, in their response to the King's command.
Characteristics of self confidence:
*People who are self confident, do what they believe is right, even if they are mocked or criticized.
*They are able to admit when they've made mistake and learn from their mistake.
*They accept compliment with grace and gratitude.
*They are less likely to be jealous or controlling.
*They are less likely to blame themselves if a relationship doesn't work out.
*They wait for people to congratulate them on their accomplishment instead of bragging and being boastful. And when congratulated, they don't let pride set in.
* They are very much assured of their own ability to make good decisions.
*They are more likely to accept responsibility for their actions.
I believe with God, all things are possible. Rely on Him and you will walk through life with an enviable poise.
We're kickstarting by exploring other things that border around this trait.
Lets get to know the signs of lack of confidence:
*Self doubt.
*Lack of trust in yourself and in others.
*Fear.
*Unforgiving attitude.
*Self shame.
*Desperation.
*Jealousy.
*Inferiority complex.
Various ways self confidence can be expressed:
✓Behavior: Behavior speaks very much about how one feel inside.
✓Body language:This says alot about an individual. Therefore one needs to be careful how he or she sends messages with his or her body composure.
✓In Dressing:This speaks volume about who a person is on the inside.
✓Walk.
✓In relationship with others.
You can build yourself by the following:
♣ Believe yourself: Believe in your ability to do or manage things.
Always remember that you are endowed with great potentials. This can be realized by doing a SWOT analysis of who you are. This is knowing your strength, your weakness, the available opportunies for you, the time frame for you. Knowing this will help you have a realistic view of who you are.
♣Look at the achievements you've made in time past, and tell yourself that if you can do such you can achieve more. Quit brooding over your past failures.
♣Always try to feel good about yourself. No one can do this for you except you.
♣Fix challenging goals. The greater the goals the greater your self confidence. Which brings you to the position of thinking.
But its very necessary to know that there is a thin line between being confident and being arrogant.
Being confident carries an aura of peace within and without. Which allows the individual permit others shine. But being arrogant,carries an ambience of rancor. Always wanting to be seen in the spotlight. Always wanting everything to revolve around them. They have a flair for accolade which when not given to them they begin to go wild.
Being confident will help you set healthy boundaries and still maintain a healthy relationship with others.
Do not forget the Holy Spirit still remains the person who helps us in our weaknesses and help us build our confident level. He is a partner that can be reliable in times like this.
There are biblical characters who displayed confidence with the help of God. They are:
Daniel in the lion's den and his interpretation of the kings dream.
Shedrack, Mishack, and Abednego, in their response to the King's command.
Characteristics of self confidence:
*People who are self confident, do what they believe is right, even if they are mocked or criticized.
*They are able to admit when they've made mistake and learn from their mistake.
*They accept compliment with grace and gratitude.
*They are less likely to be jealous or controlling.
*They are less likely to blame themselves if a relationship doesn't work out.
*They wait for people to congratulate them on their accomplishment instead of bragging and being boastful. And when congratulated, they don't let pride set in.
* They are very much assured of their own ability to make good decisions.
*They are more likely to accept responsibility for their actions.
I believe with God, all things are possible. Rely on Him and you will walk through life with an enviable poise.
Name: Chukwuemeka Esther Chidimma
Contact: estherchuks342@gmail.com
Date:28/04/2020
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